How to Invite Someone to Church Without Being Weird: Friendly Evangelism Tips
Inviting someone to church can feel uneasy. You don’t want to come across as pushy, yet you want to share the good news. You can do it in a way that is natural, kind, and respectful, without it being awkward.
The Bible encourages us to share our faith in love and gentleness:
“But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” – 1 Peter 3:15 (NIV)
Here are some friendly tips for inviting someone to church, without it feeling awkward.
Start with Genuine Friendship
People are more open to invitations when there’s a real relationship, not just a goal to get them to attend. Take time to know them, listen to their life stories, and be present in their lives if possible.
Share Your Story, Not Just an Event
Instead of saying, “Come to church”, tell them why church matters to you. Share a short testimony of how it has impacted your life. Psalms 66:16 (NKJV) says “Come and hear, all you who fear God, And I will declare what He has done for my soul”.
Keep It Simple and Clear
Don’t overwhelm them with too many words or too much detail. Just share the basics: what is happening, when, where, and what they can expect. Colossians 4:6 (NKJV) says Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
Invite, Don’t Pressure
Make it easy for them to say yes or no. A kind, no-pressure invitation leaves the door open for the future. Colossians 4:5 encourages us to “Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time”.
Offer to go With Them
Sometimes people hesitate because they don’t want to go alone. Offer to pick them up or sit with them. This shows care and removes anxiety.
Follow up with Love
If they come, check in afterwards. If they don’t, keep being a friend, your love and consistency may open the door later.
Inviting someone to church is not about winning an argument or ticking a box, it is about sharing the hope you’ve found in Jesus. When you approach it with kindness, humility, and love, your invitation can plant seeds that grow in ways you can’t imagine.